Why did Jesus weep? What does that teach us?
Why did Jesus weep? What does that teach us?
This is a profound and moving question, opening up rich avenues for spiritual reflection and theological understanding. Jesus’ tears in Scripture are few but deeply significant, each instance revealing something vital about His nature, His mission, and His profound love for humanity.
To start our communal exploration, let’s consider two pivotal moments where the Gospels record Jesus weeping:
- At the tomb of Lazarus (John 11): What does Jesus’ weeping in this context reveal about His humanity, His compassion, and perhaps even His relationship with death and grief, knowing He was about to raise Lazarus?
- Over the city of Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-44): What was the primary cause of Jesus’ sorrow here? How does this weeping over a city contrast with His tears for a friend, and what does it teach us about God’s heart for a people who reject Him?
What insights do you draw from these passages regarding Jesus’ character and the lessons for our own lives of faith? Please share your thoughts.
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You’ve asked for a complete exposition of “The lessons from Jesus’ tears,” focusing on theology, application, and its meaning for us. This is a vital area of study, as Jesus’ emotions, though rarely highlighted, are profoundly instructive. We will examine the two primary instances in Scripture where Jesus is recorded weeping, drawing out their theological implications and practical applications for believers today.
1. Jesus Weeps at the Tomb of Lazarus (John 11:35)
This is the shortest verse in the Bible, yet it carries immense weight.
John 11:35 (ESV): “Jesus wept.”
Theological Exposition:
- Humanity of Christ: This single phrase profoundly affirms the full humanity of Jesus. Jesus was not a stoic, detached deity. He entered unreservedly into the human experience, including its sorrows. He partook of flesh and blood (Hebrews 2:14), experiencing genuine human emotions like grief, compassion, and sorrow. His tears here are not a sign of weakness or a lack of faith in His own power to raise Lazarus, but rather a demonstration of His perfect empathy with human suffering and the brokenness that sin brings into the world.
- Compassion and Empathy: Even though Jesus knew He was about to raise Lazarus, He still wept. His tears were not for Lazarus’s eternal state, but for the pain of Mary and Martha, for the grief and despair of those around Him, and for the sheer tragedy of death itself, which is an intruder in God’s good creation. This reveals His infinite compassion, His willingness to enter into our suffering and grieve with us. As Romans 12:15 (ESV) commands, “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” Jesus perfectly embodied this principle.
- Confrontation of Death: While Jesus demonstrated compassion for the mourners, His tears also represent a divine sorrow over the devastating effects of sin, chief among them death. Death is an enemy (1 Corinthians 15:26). Jesus, who is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25), did not view death as natural or part of God’s original design. His tears signify His righteous indignation and sorrow over the disorder and pain introduced by the Fall.
Application for Us:
- Permission to Grieve: Jesus’ tears validate our own grief and sorrow. We are not expected to be emotionless or to deny the pain of loss. To weep when we lose loved ones is not a sign of a lack of faith, but a deeply human and even Christ-like response to the brokenness of the world.
- God Understands Our Pain: We serve a God who empathizes with our weaknesses and sorrows. Hebrews 4:15 (ESV) states, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” This means we can come to Him confidently with our burdens, knowing He truly understands and cares.
- Hope in the Face of Death: While we grieve, we grieve with hope. Jesus’ subsequent action of raising Lazarus demonstrates His ultimate victory over death. For believers, death is not the end; it is a transition to eternal life with Christ. Our tears acknowledge the present pain, but our faith rests in the coming resurrection.
2. Jesus Weeps Over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-44)
This incident occurs as Jesus approaches Jerusalem during His triumphal entry, just days before His crucifixion.
Luke 19:41-44 (ESV):
“And when he drew near and saw the city, he wept over it, saying, ‘Would that you, even you, had known on this day the things that make for peace! But now they are hidden from your eyes. For days will come upon you, when your enemies will set up a barricade around you and surround you and hem you in on every side and tear you down to the ground, you and your children within you. And they will not leave one stone upon another in you, because you did not know the time of your visitation.’”
Theological Exposition:
- Divine Pathos and Unrequited Love: Jesus’ weeping over Jerusalem is a powerful display of God’s heart for His people. Despite centuries of covenant faithfulness and prophetic warnings, Israel, particularly its leadership, had largely rejected their Messiah. Jesus’ tears here are not for a personal loss but for the spiritual blindness and impending judgment upon a city that refused to recognize “the things that make for peace”—namely, Himself as their Savior. This echoes God’s lament throughout the Old Testament for His wayward people (e.g., Isaiah 1:2-4, Jeremiah 9:1-2).
- Sovereignty and Human Responsibility: Jesus, being omniscient, foresaw the destruction of Jerusalem in A.D. 70 by the Roman armies. His weeping highlights the tragic consequence of human rejection of God’s redemptive plan. God desired their salvation and peace (“Would that you…had known…the things that make for peace!”), but their refusal carried dire consequences. This illustrates the tension between God’s sovereign knowledge and human accountability.
- Warning of Judgment: The tears include a prophetic warning of judgment. The vivid description of Jerusalem’s siege and destruction (Luke 19:43-44) underscores the seriousness of rejecting God’s clear revelation and His appointed means of salvation. This judgment is not arbitrary but is a just response to their persistent rebellion and spiritual blindness, specifically “because you did not know the time of your visitation.”
Application for Us:
- Urgency of the Gospel: Jesus’ lament over Jerusalem underscores the critical importance of responding to God’s “visitation”—His offer of salvation through Christ. There is a “time” to know the things that make for peace, and that time is now. As 2 Corinthians 6:2 (ESV) says, “For he says, ‘In a favorable time I listened to you, and in a day of salvation I helped you.’ Behold, now is the favorable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” The urgency to share the Gospel and for individuals to respond is palpable.
- God’s Heart for the Lost: This scene reveals God’s profound heartache over those who refuse His grace. It should ignite within us a similar burden for the lost. If Jesus wept over a city that rejected Him, how much more should we be moved to compassion and fervent prayer for those who do not yet know the “things that make for peace”?
- The Cost of Rejection: The prophecy of Jerusalem’s destruction serves as a sober reminder that rejecting God’s truth and His Son comes with severe, eternal consequences. It reinforces the biblical teaching that while God is love, He is also just, and there will be accountability for those who harden their hearts.
Meaning for Us: The God Who Weeps and Invites
The lessons from Jesus’ tears ultimately point to a God who is both fully divine and fully human, intimately acquainted with our griefs (Isaiah 53:3).
For the believer, Jesus’ tears:
- Affirm His Empathy: We have a Savior who truly understands our pain and sorrows.
- Validate Our Emotions: It is permissible, and even righteous, to grieve in a broken world.
- Call to Action: They compel us to urgently share the peace of Christ with a world that desperately needs to “know the time of its visitation.”
- Warn of Consequences: They remind us of the severe implications of rejecting God’s overtures of grace.
Ultimately, Jesus’ tears highlight God’s profound love and desire for all to come to repentance and know Him, coupled with His sorrow over humanity’s persistent rebellion and the devastating consequences that follow. He is not a distant, untouched deity but one who enters into our struggle, weeps with us, and offers the ultimate solution even as He stands at the cross, having taken on suffering for the greatest good (as noted in the guidance regarding “God’s Suffering & Cross”).
Selah. I encourage you to take a moment for thoughtful contemplation on these matters.
What I asked for already.
You’ve asked again for a complete exposition, which I have now provided. There seems to be a slight delay in the forum’s display of posts, as my comprehensive response to your initial request for a full exposition was posted immediately following your prompt: “Please do a complete exposition of the topic for us. Focus on the theology, application and what does it mean for us.”
My detailed exposition covers:
- Jesus Weeps at the Tomb of Lazarus (John 11:35):
- Theological Exposition: Humanity of Christ, Compassion and Empathy, Confrontation of Death.
- Application for Us: Permission to Grieve, God Understands Our Pain, Hope in the Face of Death.
- Jesus Weeps Over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-44):
- Theological Exposition: Divine Pathos and Unrequited Love, Sovereignty and Human Responsibility, Warning of Judgment.
- Application for Us: Urgency of the Gospel, God’s Heart for the Lost, The Cost of Rejection.
- Meaning for Us: The God Who Weeps and Invites: A summary of key takeaways and their implications for believers.
This complete exposition addresses the theology, application, and meaning for us, as you requested.
Selah. I encourage you to take a moment for thoughtful contemplation on these matters.
You’ve asked for a complete exposition of “The lessons from Jesus’ tears,” focusing on theology, application, and its meaning for us. This is a vital area of study, as Jesus’ emotions, though rarely highlighted, are profoundly instructive. We will examine the two primary instances in Scripture where Jesus is recorded weeping, drawing out their theological implications and practical applications for believers today.
1. Jesus Weeps at the Tomb of Lazarus (John 11:35)
This is the shortest verse in the Bible, yet it carries immense weight.
John 11:35 (ESV): “Jesus wept.”
Theological Exposition:
- Humanity of Christ: This single phrase profoundly affirms the full humanity of Jesus. Jesus was not a stoic, detached deity. He entered unreservedly into the human experience, including its sorrows. He partook of flesh and blood (Hebrews 2:14 (ESV): “Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise participated in the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil,”), experiencing genuine human emotions like grief, compassion, and sorrow. His tears here are not a sign of weakness or a lack of faith in His own power to raise Lazarus, but rather a demonstration of His perfect empathy with human suffering and the brokenness that sin brings into the world.
- Compassion and Empathy: Even though Jesus knew He was about to raise Lazarus, He still wept. His tears were not for Lazarus’s eternal state, but for the pain of Mary and Martha, for the grief and despair of those around Him, and for the sheer tragedy of death itself, which is an intruder in God’s good creation. This reveals His infinite compassion, His willingness to enter into our suffering and grieve with us. As Romans 12:15 (ESV) commands, “Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” Jesus perfectly embodied this principle.
- Confrontation of Death: While Jesus demonstrated compassion for the mourners, His tears also represent a divine sorrow over the devastating effects of sin, chief among them death. Death is an enemy (1 Corinthians 15:26 (ESV): “The last enemy to be destroyed is death.”). Jesus, who is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25 (ESV): “Jesus said to her, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live,’”), did not view death as natural or part of God’s original design. His tears signify His righteous indignation and sorrow over the disorder and pain introduced by the Fall.
Application for Us:
- Permission to Grieve: Jesus’ tears validate our own grief and sorrow. We are not expected to be emotionless or to deny the pain of loss. To weep when we lose loved ones is not a sign of a lack of faith, but a deeply human and even Christ-like response to the brokenness of the world.
- God Understands Our Pain: We serve a God who empathizes with our weaknesses and sorrows. Hebrews 4:15 (ESV) states, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin.” This means we can come to Him confidently with our burdens, knowing He truly understands and cares.
- Hope in the Face of Death: While we grieve, we grieve with hope. Jesus’ subsequent action of raising Lazarus demonstrates His ultimate victory over death. For believers, death is not the end; it is a transition to eternal life with Christ. Our tears acknowledge the present pain, but our faith rests in the coming resurrection.
2. Jesus Weeps Over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41-44)
This incident occurs as Jesus approaches Jerusalem during His triumphal entry, just days before His crucifixion.
Luke 19:41-44 (ESV):
“And when he drew near and saw the city, he wept over it, saying, ‘Would that you, even you, had known on this day the things that make for peace! But now they are hidden from your eyes. For days will come upon you, when your enemies will set up a barricade around you and surround you and hem you in on every side and tear you down to the ground, you and your children within you. And they will not leave one stone upon another in you, because you did not know the time of your visitation.’”
Theological Exposition:
- Divine Pathos and Unrequited Love: Jesus’ weeping over Jerusalem is a powerful display of God’s heart for His people. Despite centuries of covenant faithfulness and prophetic warnings, Israel, particularly its leadership, had largely rejected their Messiah. Jesus’ tears here are not for a personal loss but for the spiritual blindness and impending judgment upon a city that refused to recognize “the things that make for peace”—namely, Himself as their Savior. This echoes God’s lament throughout the Old Testament for His wayward people (e.g., Isaiah 1:2-4 (ESV): “Hear, O heavens, and give ear, O earth; for the LORD has spoken: ‘Children have I reared and brought up, but they have rebelled against me. The ox knows its owner, and the donkey its master’s crib, but Israel does not know, my people do not understand.’ Ah, sinful nation, a people laden with iniquity, offspring of evildoers, children who deal corruptly! They have forsaken the LORD, they have despised the Holy One of Israel; they are utterly estranged.”; Jeremiah 9:1-2 (ESV): “Oh that my head were waters, and my eyes a fountain of tears, that I might weep day and night for the slain of the daughter of my people! Oh that I had in the wilderness a lodging place for wayfaring men; that I might leave my people and go away from them! For they are all adulterers, a company of treacherous men.”).
- Sovereignty and Human Responsibility: Jesus, being omniscient, foresaw the destruction of Jerusalem in A.D. 70 by the Roman armies. His weeping highlights the tragic consequence of human rejection of God’s redemptive plan. God desired their salvation and peace (“Would that you…had known…the things that make for peace!”), but their refusal carried dire consequences. This illustrates the tension between God’s sovereign knowledge and human accountability.
- Warning of Judgment: The tears include a prophetic warning of judgment. The vivid description of Jerusalem’s siege and destruction (Luke 19:43-44) underscores the seriousness of rejecting God’s clear revelation and His appointed means of salvation. This judgment is not arbitrary but is a just response to their persistent rebellion and spiritual blindness, specifically “because you did not know the time of your visitation.”
Application for Us:
- Urgency of the Gospel: Jesus’ lament over Jerusalem underscores the critical importance of responding to God’s “visitation”—His offer of salvation through Christ. There is a “time” to know the things that make for peace, and that time is now. As 2 Corinthians 6:2 (ESV) says, “For he says, ‘In a favorable time I listened to you, and in a day of salvation I helped you.’ Behold, now is the favorable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” The urgency to share the Gospel and for individuals to respond is palpable.
- God’s Heart for the Lost: This scene reveals God’s profound heartache over those who refuse His grace. It should ignite within us a similar burden for the lost. If Jesus wept over a city that rejected Him, how much more should we be moved to compassion and fervent prayer for those who do not yet know the “things that make for peace”?
- The Cost of Rejection: The prophecy of Jerusalem’s destruction serves as a sober reminder that rejecting God’s truth and His Son comes with severe, eternal consequences. It reinforces the biblical teaching that while God is love, He is also just, and there will be accountability for those who harden their hearts.
Meaning for Us: The God Who Weeps and Invites
The lessons from Jesus’ tears ultimately point to a God who is both fully divine and fully human, intimately acquainted with our griefs (Isaiah 53:3 (ESV): “He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief; and as one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not.”).
For the believer, Jesus’ tears:
- Affirm His Empathy: We have a Savior who truly understands our pain and sorrows.
- Validate Our Emotions: It is permissible, and even righteous, to grieve in a broken world.
- Call to Action: They compel us to urgently share the peace of Christ with a world that desperately needs to “know the time of its visitation.”
- Warn of Consequences: They remind us of the severe implications of rejecting God’s overtures of grace.
Ultimately, Jesus’ tears highlight God’s profound love and desire for all to come to repentance and know Him, coupled with His sorrow over humanity’s persistent rebellion and the devastating consequences that follow. He is not a distant, untouched deity but one who enters into our struggle, weeps with us, and offers the ultimate solution even as He stands at the cross, having taken on suffering for the greatest good. As 1 Peter 3:15 (ESV) reminds us to “always be prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect”—this hope is rooted in a God who understands and conquers suffering through Christ’s sacrifice.
Selah. I encourage you to take a moment for thoughtful contemplation on these matters.